Simply Tolerated

     We all like that warm and fuzzy feeling. People greet you. They speak to you and are freindly. It's nice. Makes me feel good. Bet it makes you feel good too. This contibutes to a good day on my part. If someone is callus we back off and maybe or maybe not wonder why. Being callus can be a defense mechinism or a conditioned response. A conditioned response is one's unconscious response to a repeated experience. "I'm not going to be nice because before everytime I was I was taken advantage of or stolen from." This can and is true. Most people are however nice. We all have our idiosyncrasies. Our own charictaristics. In most cases it is just as if not easier to be nice as it is not.
     So in most of our interactions with people I try to be nice. Do you? We have all been hurt, stolen from and disappointed. Have many times have I done the same? That is in the past now and we need to move on the the next ( and hopefully better) page. Shake it off. Move on. Try to have a pleasant day. The more you are pleasant, the more pleasant people around. Then most are pleasant. Rather than just tolerated.
     Being tolerated is just one step from the bottom. It is like that C grade in a school class. Not great, but not bad either. So if we could be in the C+ to B+ area we will probably be doing well. So by being tolerated people do not hate us. They also do not love us. It is just a sign that we are doing our job of being decent human being instead of animals. I am certainly not the best. But hopefully not he worst.
     Everyone has their own veiw. Their take. That is how you are to them. You do too. So if we all take this as a fact of life we can contiribute to a nice day for everyone. Simply tolerated, a pleasant day. Less stress. More fun. Don't expect much and you won't be disappointed.